She is home now.  If you were to say that you thought you changed your loved ones briefs more time than us, I would be hard pressed to believe you.  It was a messy day almost every hour.   But with a fresh broken hip (the other one broke a few years previous) and an inability to rotate left or right without pain, it makes it worse than you can imagine.

Such is the life and times.  One day at a time.  One challenge at a time

Just deal with the problem in front of you.  Adapt.  Improve.  Overcome.  Repeat.